Not kissing
Believe it or not, many men don't kiss the woman they're with when
they're having sex — and that's one of the biggest mistakes to avoid in
bed. Why don't these men kiss? Perhaps because the positioning doesn't
allow for it. Nevertheless, we recommend that you make an effort to kiss your woman when you're inside her.
Biting before she's ready
While plenty of women enjoy an aggressive man, biting any part of her
body before she's fully aroused may lead to pain and discomfort. Make
sure she's fully excited before you bite her nipples, shoulders, neck,
or any other part of her body.
Ignoring everything but sexualized parts
Breasts
and vaginas are great — no doubt — but you should definitely pay
attention to other parts of her body. Lick behind her knees, kiss her
wrists, rub her back, caress her stomach; focus on her entire body.
It'll turn her on more and, in turn, increase the chances of her pleasuring you back.
Putting your weight on her
It's OK to lose yourself in the moment every once in a while and go
crazy on your woman. However, when you're lying on top of her, you have
to be careful not to drop your weight on her, in essence hindering her
ability to breathe properly — which is never a good thing during sex.
We have five more mistakes to avoid in bed, including why you shouldn't
let go to soon, and when you do, tell her...
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Ejaculating too soon/too late
You need to have good penile
control to ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time. Too
soon and she may be unsatisfied; too late and she starts feeling like
sandpaper. If you can't control yourself and end up letting go too soon,
spend a lot more time on foreplay.
If you last too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do
your best to give her an orgasm and then get her to satisfy you
manually.
Not warning her about ejaculate
If you're
going to come, whether it's inside her vagina, in her mouth or anywhere
on her body, you need to tell her beforehand. Something as simple as
"I'm going to come," will suffice. She deserves to know.
Treating sex like porn
Although some couples enjoy having nasty, raunchy sex, you'd be wise to
talk to the girl you're going to sleep with before you engage in such
behavior. If you begin forcing her head back and forth when she's
sucking you, or you pound away on her and start spanking her without knowing if she likes it first, chances are the scenario won't end on a happy note.
Staying quiet
We're sure you want to hear when your woman is enjoying herself, so pay her the same respect and give her a bit of dirty talk. Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, "That feels so good," will encourage her.
Pumping like a Sprinter
It may feel good for you to pump in and out of a woman like you're in a
sprint, but you'll quickly discover that most women don't enjoy such an
act, at least not off the bat. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at
times, then slow down. Go all the way in at times, and other times let
only the tip of your head in.
keep it interesting
It's up to
you to mix it up and avoid making sexual errors that irritate women.
Once you do that, it's all butter. Watch out for the nine and you're
guaranteed a good time.
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