Guys, maybe you think that she’s moaning and screaming because you’re
such a great lover – you’re pounding away inside her, she’s having a
mind-blowing orgasm. Sorry, think again.
That’s not why women
are so noisy in bed, according to the findings of a British study. Over
85 percent of women make lots of noise simply to boost their partner’s
sex self-esteem, the study found.
The researchers asked over 70
heterosexual women whether they were more likely to reach orgasm during
masturbation, foreplay, or intercourse. They also wanted to know how
noisy the women were during these different sexual activities and the
reasons why.
All of the women in the study said they made noise
in bed, whether it was screaming out their partner’s name, telling him
to go faster or harder, or moaning with pleasure. But the researchers
were in for a surprise when they compared how noisy women were when they
reached orgasm.
The women were more likely to climax during
foreplay – like when their partner gave them oral sex – compared to
intercourse. And it wasn’t when they were coming that they were most
likely to make noise.
Stroking his ego
When it comes to
moaning and screaming, they made a lot more noise when they were having
sex, right before and during their partner’s orgasm. Yes, the reason
most women make noise in bed is to turn on their partner. In fact,
almost 80 percent said they make noise even when they know there’s no
chance they’re going to reach orgasm themselves.
All that
hollering is mainly to stroke their guy’s ego. It doesn’t necessarily
mean a girl’s in ecstasy. In fact, it could mean just the opposite.
Women also say that moans and screams are one way to hurry sex along
when you’re not particularly enjoying it.
Yup, women can and do
use their voice to control how their guy feels during sex and when he
climaxes, the researchers conclude. And why do they do it? To
‘manipulate male behavior to their advantage’.
Boosting her guy’s
sex self-esteem by making lots of noise could help strengthen the bond
between a woman and her partner, the researchers hypothesis. But there’s
also the advantage of speeding up a guy’s orgasm if she’s in pain, just
plain bored, or ready to roll over and go to sleep.
So guys, if
you really want to please her, don’t go by the big performance, look for
the subtle signs of ecstasy. And girls, nice of you to cheer him on
like that, but don’t forget to show and tell what really makes you go
wild…
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