Often, you never notice when someone is taking you for granted until
it is too late. Often you have already invested so much of your time,
emotions, even money into that relationship. I know this may sound a
little selfish, but you have to ensure that the love you give is
reciprocated. A relationship is never a one way deal. Here are a few
signs that he is taking you for granted
1. His pals, or family don know you

This
sounds a bit naïve, but you really meant a lot to him, he wouldn’t shut
up about you. If you love something, just think how much you talk about
it, all your famo and pals know that you love it. But if it is just
there, you rarely mention it. It is the same if none of his close people
know of you, perhaps he just stringing you along for the stuff you do
for him.
2. He often forgets about you

Say
you planned a lunch, he may forget or run dreadfully late. This also
applies to missed calls and text. If you are not on his mind, he totally
forgets to return these. There are times people get busy, but it should
not happen 99% of the time.
3. Your faults are most prominent

You
may have changed a lot for this boy, but these often go unnoticed. Then
when an error does occur, he never forgets and often brings it up. He
is often reminding you of your faults, but still wont let go of the
relationship. A proper relationship is based on support, compromise and
forgiveness. You should be your partner’s support, not the one that
brings them down.
4. He is never satisfied with you

Admittedly,
in all relationships, sacrifices and compromises have to be made. You
try your hardest to please him, but he is never content. Always
questioning you and even worse belittling you. Yet through all this,
they still expect more from you.
5. You feel you deserve better

Often,
you feel used in the relationship. In this relationship, your pride and
self-worth have been broken. They often also make you feel useless and
lesser in the relationship. You should not tolerate this.
Girl, you are awesome, a strong human and you should not let someone
take advantage of you. He still sticking with you, meaning you have
great things to offer. Do not waste them on someone who does not treat
you like the queen you are; with love, respect and honour.
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