#1. Dim the lights
Renowned American psychologist, Kenneth Gergen, did a research on how ‘darkness’ can make people less inhibited. He found that couples are likely to talk, touch and hug each other more, when they are plunged into a dimly lit room. So, if you are looking for ways to make someone a little more comfortable, and less uptight, dim the lights, use candles and let the hazy glow of the night work its magic on them!#2. Right tricks to shy or look up
This one might
not come as a shock to many Indian women, but you will be surprised to
know that this one still works like a charm. We are talking about ‘sharmana’.
Yes, keeping the chin down makes ladies appear more attractive and
feminine. So, next time don’t forget to tilt your head down a little,
when the man of your dreams walks towards you. And, here is a trick for
men- titling your chin up will make your appear more masculine and
macho. Obviously, this needs to be affected in moderation or it will
just make you look comical!
#3. Excitement beats pleasure
Do exciting stuff together, like paragliding or trekking or dancing or anything adventurous. Going to the movies or an art exhibition can be reserved for the time after you have wooed the prospective partner. Ditching the familiar, and exploring the exciting new things can bring two people very close. So, use this trick to get closer to the one you want.#4. Capture them with your eyes
Making eye
contact is of prime importance, and research backs it too. It has been
found that an unbroken gaze into the eyes of a stranger of the opposite
sex, can increase feelings of passion between the two. So, eye contact
can send much stronger signals to your prospective partner than those
hundreds of text messages. Eye contact is so important that when couples
were given a test, as a part of a relationship research, it was found
that those who were blindfolded and not allowed eye contact registered a
50 per cent decrease in the level of attraction that they felt for
their partner.
#5. Spill the beans
If you want to build a strong and everlasting bond with someone, over a short period of time, then you need to share your secrets with them. Noted researcher, Arthur Aron discovered that sharing secrets brings you closer to each other. Letting people in on your secrets tells them a lot about how you feel about them. They are made to feel special as part of your inner circle of trust, and they instinctively feel closer to you since they now share a secret with you!#6. Red is your colour
Several
researches have been made on the effects that different colours have on
both the genders. And, most of them have discovered that red is your
safest bet if you want to get someone’s attention. Red makes people
appear more desirable, whether it is for dating or mating! Men find
women in red extremely attractive, and when ladies see a man wearing a
red outfit they are drawn towards him. Thus, wearing red to a date
increases your chances of getting closer to your guy or gal.
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